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Barb by Proxy

a.k.a, "Why The Hell Doesn't Anyone Listen To Me?"

Good thing it's almost August

Thursday, June 29, 2006

Background Noise: We Used to Be Friends
Random Thought: Happy Birthday to Me
Mood: TGI...Fuck, it's only Thursday

So, I was pretty despondent when I found out I had to wait until August for the second season of V Mars to hit DVD. Then I realized that I've been complaining about how quickly the year is passing and realizd that it will be August 22nd before I know it. Nice.


Death Becomes Her

Monday, June 26, 2006

Background Noise: Nothing Left To Lose
Random Thought: Gee, I'm so worried that Al Jazeera in English would make it too difficult to verify that newsnetworks were reporting actual news instead of fake, re-edited news intended to spurn people into mis-guided political frenzies. 'Cuz I couldn't have just watched FOX News for that.
Mood: London '07

So, JK Rowling has announced that 2 characters will perish in the 7th and final Harry Potter Book. Guess what, I don't care. What I would have really relished reading about is the release date.

Because I'm looking forward to a trip to jolly ol' England with Anne to purchase and devour Book 7. Because if it is a year away, we can save up and do it right--nice hotel, with comfy beds to better stay up all night reading HP in, a side trip to the lakes district, 3 or 4 theatre shows, and fabulous culture. Becuase a year is just the right amount of time to plan and save, while still being in the realm of soon, so that actual planning can take place instead of just swishy pipe-dreams.

Dates, dammit! I need dates!

Making Good

Sunday, June 25, 2006

Background Noise: Love I Can't Defend (Elvira Nikolaisen)
Random Thought: Intoxication Tends to Be Unkind...How true
Mood: T minus 4 days until vacay

Let me welcome myself back to blogging by saying that entertainment has gone to shit lately. Now, I understand that big-budget summer movies cater to the same audience that is currently watching futbal 24/7 (in every country but here, where we are a bit behind). But I have to say that I've been difinitively disappointed with entertainment as of late.

First, I've seen a lot of movies that make better other things: DaVinci Code made a better book, Lost City made a better soundtrack, The Sisters was superior as a stageplay, X3 was pretty but can't hold a candle to The Last Stand (This gives me hope for Superman, which was penned by the same scriptwriters and is also directed by Brian Singer).

Second, I've been on a Rent kick recently, meaning that insteas of smiling as one of it's songs staggered across my i-pod, I've been listening to it in its entirety. It makes me so sad to think of the film version, which I am planning on buying. Because it falls into the category that I will place DaVinci and X3 in--pretty. I can pop it in and do something else. I'm not engrossed.

That brings me to what I think is the overarching problem in entertainment as of late--I don't care about the outcome because I don't care about the characters. Rent--OBC is an example of a story that weaves layered stories of interesting, conflicted, human characters into the fabric of a plot-line with a rollercoaster of emotion. The movie is a flat painting of those people that ignores much of what made them matter--there is no suicide, no bulimia, no beggars, no rioting, no disapproving parents, hardly any snark and a complete lack of depth.

And this is prevalent in other mediums as well--I'm on a hunt for quality reading material and find nothing but cookie-cutter chick-lit and knock-off DaVinci Codes, tomes about supernatural beings and precocious dead people. Remember when Bridget Jones and Angels & Demons were fresh and new? They got buzz because they were intriguing and something different--now I can hardly raise a care about historians stumbling into conspiracies involving shadowy history or plucky singletons.

Media's problem--laziness. They find a rut that sells once and repeat it until they're in a hole so deep they can't see the sun. They flatten down films so that they will be easier to screen in foreign markets. They make sequels and remakes without worrying about if the current installment is any good on its own. And the whole idea that there are no new ideas is crap. People who say there are only a certain number of story lines (romance, western, buddy-flick, etc) are grasping at straws. There is one--love. The love of another person, the love of family, the love of a friend, love of the game, etc. You wouldn't have revenge if you didn't love what/who you lost, and you'd have a pretty crappy war film without the characters love for something. If characters don't love (even if they only love themselves), then there is no reason to care what happens to them. And this is what is becoming so prevalent in media today. Comic hijinks are linked by boring intreludes and book characters tread the same old boring quest for ramance while being simultaneously enviable/identifiable/idealistic/jaded/hunting for a relationship/yearning to be an idividual/and part of the requsite quirky family. Good storytelling just isn't that hard. Find a character and what they love, and it will tell itself. And people will want to take the journey with them.

Find the Love people, and you'll be making good.

Time Flies...

Background Noise: You Okay, Honey?
Random Thought: I think I'd rather have friends like those in Rent rather than the ones from Friends, and not just because they'd be able to sing...
Mood: Where did the weekend go? Where did June go?

Okay, so in actuality I know where June went, and why my blogging has slacked. Most of it is work. Some of it is play. A lot of it is irrational anger. Anyway. Let's get you caught up.

I did in fact meet Jim Craig, who was nice enough to sign my mat so that I could frame a picture of him. Not only is he extremely nice and amusing, he is actually a really wonderful moticational speaker. More later.

Unfortunately, seeing Jim Craig came anongst 3 of the longest days. While Seminar is supposed to be a time in which to connect with all of the Village Green employees and get face time with them, I spent most of it working. Jason, our office's entry to the Seminar Committee did little to no work and took all kinds of credit. Susan and I slaved away at the registration table on Wednesday from 6-8, which meant we missed the "tailgate" party and subsequently the food (no loss anyway, none of it was vegetarian), then decorated the ballroom from 9:30-12:30, only to be back at the registration table on Thursday from 7-9, and basically ran the regional teambuilding excersise that afternoon, and cleaned up on Friday morning. All of that with also planning the bus trip, refreshments, etc. He had the gaul to respond on Friday morning when asked how he liked Seminar with "It was awesome! Like Spring Break!" Spring Break my ass.

Then I had a crummy week in which I became irrationally mad at people that aren't even my friends anymore, so I shouldn't be wasting time on them, but I did.

Luckily, my parents came to see me for the weekend of Father's Day, over which my Mom's birthday fell. We ate great food, museum-hopped and enjoyed ourselves.

That brings me to this past week, where I spent 72 hours at work. Partially finishing Owner's reports and business summaries, but also helping plan and execute two property re-introductions (they frown upon the term "grand opening" for some reason). More on those later also.

Luckily, after I go to work this week I'm headed off to Higgins Lake, a palce of extreme relaxation and cocktails. Ahhh. I can't wait.